To my mind, it's no more complicated than other day-to-day things, like setting and clearing the table for mealtimes, but I guess we see things differently :)

On the photo front, consent for an infant comes from its parents, so we're just going round in circles. With the way you phrase it, I guess you forbid photos from even being taken (s/publish/take/ in your question above and it's substantially the same). That, in my experience. is an unusual position, which is why it interested me, but also I don't want to sound like I think it's a wrong judgement, so unless you *want* to tell me more about why, I'll leave it there.